If a man told the police that he beat his ex-girlfriend to death because, “If I can’t have her, nobody can,”  no one would buy that as a defense for what he did.  That’s because society expects men to accept that they don’t own their wives or girlfriends, and to have the emotional strength to deal with knowing that “their woman” is with someone else.  But the pro-choice mentality is that women are too hysterical and weak to live up to that standard.  Instead, behavior that is reprehensible and criminal in men, must be treated as a “choice” for women.  It is also interesting that the same people who say women risk being traumatized by placing their babies for adoption, also sell the idea that women are never traumatized by having their babies butchered.